Why do guys feel as though a woman is suppose to take care of them?

So I was dating a guy that was always asking me for money. He asked me for money so much that I broke up with him. Later on he said that when I was his woman I was suppose to take care of him. Its not my job to take care of a grown ass man. What ever happened to the man providing for the woman?? I hope he reads this cuz I want my $52.00 he owes me.

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Permalink Reply by KHAKI on June 23, 2009 at 6:40pm: I think it's because we live in a time where all the fake facades about being players and pimps' are fashionable to "some" people. So that leads to a trend of dudes who are trying too hard to fulfill that fantasy of not having to work in order to get what they want. We can also blame some women who cash these guys out because they think it will make the relationship last. I've been in a couple relationships where I was cashed out like that; so much I kinda felt like a prostitute. But no complaints. lol I think that's a multi-issue situation which depends on who's side you coming from. The recipient or the cashier.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Quest MCODY on June 24, 2009 at 7:53pm: It's been happening the other way around for years....some women pay for time...if their time is that important hey....,.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by wayne anthany pope on August 27, 2009 at 1:42pm: I'm a soldier not just that but I'm originally from the South now living in a small town near the Border mostly hispanic girls who search for niggas to take care of. So I know how Hood Niggas can latch on females who want to take care of there broke ass's. You did the right thing by getting free and keeping your money with you. But u just can't blame Niggas because it the females now in search of men's in general. It sad what females have to go through to keep a man because there is one more around the corner willing to do the same...Maybe even better then the one he is with. I have daughters and I hope they have your mentality about broke ass worthless men's in general...Peace n Love my Black African Sister...Keeping representing who you are and avoiding Broke Ass Niggas...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Quest MCODY on August 28, 2009 at 9:04am: When it really comes down to it, no one should loan more money than they can afford to loose.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Chico on September 9, 2009 at 3:04pm: I don't think a woman should take care of me I think she sould do her part, cooking and pay her part of the bills.
I think men should take care of the woman, if a woman is takeing care of a man he better not be working or just down on his luck that's just wrong.; ▶ Reply to This